What You Should Never Do To A Narcissist
A narcissist is the ultimate test of your spiritual practice. Your desires can get you burnt, over-identifying with the narcissist can get you incinerated. And like the frog in slowly boiling water, you won’t even know it is happening.
Grandiosity is not unique to narcissists. We all carry grand visions of a bigger, brighter future. Life wants to evolve, and grandiosity is the fuel which propels us toward that. We imagine the perfect relationship. The ideal home. Prosperity. Connection. All the things that make life worth living.
We also tend to over-value things. The classic example is the child who sees their parent as the ultimate authority, full of infinite strength and wisdom. They see the parent as boundlessly loving and supportive; the ultimate manifestation of a human being.